When you look at your wife you have to wonder where things went wrong. You love the woman yet you know that deep down her feelings for you have shifted dramatically. She’s not as attentive and compassionate as she once was and she seems ready to walk out the door and away from your marriage at any given moment. Living in a relationship like this is never easy and it becomes more and more difficult as each day passes. You love your wife and you want the marriage to get back to a place of mutual satisfaction and adoration. Is it possible for you to make that happen on your own? Can you get your wife to love you all over again? You can if you understand how to appeal to her emotions in a way that she’ll find irresistible. It may sound complicated and confusing, but the process of reclaiming your wife’s love may be easier than you ever imagined.
Give Her the Chance to Explain What She’s Feeling
By nature most men are defensive. Typically when you and your wife have a discussion about your marriage and she says anything even remotely critical, you’re quick to jump to your own defence, right? You don’t want to accept the fact that you may have made some mistakes in the marriage. That’s natural. In fact, your wife may be of the same mind when she refuses to take responsibility for some of her actions that have caused you two to drift apart.
When your wife starts pulling away from you it’s imperative that you encourage her to share what’s she’s feeling. You must do that in a way in which she feels comfortable and confident. In other words, you can’t be on the attack and ready to pounce on her verbally if she says anything about how you’re not the ideal husband. You must allow her the opportunity to express what she feels in an open and honest way. If you do this, you’ll be showing her that her feelings are the most important thing to you. That will help tremendously in breaking down the emotional barrier that is currently between the two of you.
Romance Her All Over Again
One reason so many men embrace the idea of marriage is they get tired of trying to impress the women they’re involved with. It’s not a secret that once a man marries he tends to be much less romantic than when he and his wife first met. That’s not an uncommon thing but in the case of a marriage that is beginning to unravel, it’s worth considering how beneficial it may be to rediscover the romance.
Your wife may be feeling as though you don’t adore her the way you used to. She may miss those small romantic gestures that set the foundation for the relationship that you two have now. A wonderful way to show your wife how much you cherish her is to start doing things for her that she won’t be expecting. This may be something as simple as bringing home a single red rose as a symbol of your love for her or making her breakfast in bed on the weekend. Even though this may all seem very unoriginal, it will mean the world to a woman who has felt less connected to her husband.
Romance doesn’t have to stop the moment you exchange wedding vows. If you show your wife that you love her all over again, you may find that she’ll open back up to the idea of loving you again. She loved you enough to marry you once. With the right approach and a patient heart, you can make her feel that way all over again.